(Closed) “Your wedding depresses me” – Really???

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
2231 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Yeah she just sounds upset about her own life, plus she’s joking. She is not saying your actual wedding is making her depressed or even thinking that it would also make you upset to hear that. 

Post # 19
3798 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Sounds like she is playing games and trying to make it seem as though even though she is single, she is still busy and has her own life. Don’t be surprised if she does not show up.

Post # 20
7367 posts
Busy Beekeeper

Yeah I don’t think its personal toward you. She probably shouldn’t have said it to you, but at the same time she’s entitled to her feelings. Weddings do bring out the worst in women who are upset about their own status.

Post # 21
2247 posts
Buzzing bee

She’s jealous.  Plain and simple.  She’s bitter because she’s not getting married yet. 

Post # 23
2114 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I think she is joking and cares about a fraction as much as you think she does

Post # 24
858 posts
Busy bee

i’m sorry OP some people need to think before they speak/type.joking or not its uncalled for plain and simple

Post # 25
182 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Well, I’ll try to throw her a bone…maybe she was just trying to make a joke and it came out wrong? She may just not have meant it that way or wasn’t thinking when she texted it. Perhaps you can try to talk to her about it? It may be a lost cause if she really is a bitter old single gal but if she doesn’t realize/intend to come off that way, it may be an opportunity to let her know and perhaps she will try to be more positive and supportive. Just some food for thought.

Post # 27
3521 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

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@Fricky: I think perhaps you’re reading a bit too much into her response (or lack thereof). 

Post # 28
2818 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Like everyone else said, she’s jealous. I wouldn’t worry too much about it, if she comes to the wedding great, if not oh well.

Post # 30
5109 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

That is so weird that she was all interested and now cant be bothered. It probably does bug her though to see all her friends or old friends tying the knot if she is nowhere near that point in her life. I would just take it for what it is and not let it bother you, honestly if she wouldnt have reached out to you on fb would have you even thought to invite her? Probably not if you guys werent really speaking or anything. I wouldnt let this make you have a bad day or something not worth it. but congrats your day is getting close!!

Post # 31
129 posts
Blushing bee

I know the feeling, I have a same friend like that… After my fiance proposed and the hype of sending texts and yes sad to say facebook status update… I told one of my good friends and no sooner after her facebook status was something along the lines of “I cant stand this love stuff its all bs anyway I should just prepare myself for a lonely life”…jealosuly is an ugly trait… but you cant let one person like that ruin YOUR day!!  

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