(Closed) “Your wedding depresses me” – Really???

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 32
112 posts
Blushing bee

i totally get jealous friends too. who say and do inappropriate things because they are not happy with themselves so they can’t be happy for you.  Just remember its about them not you.  Yes, she probably said it more jokingly than you took it. but she also probably meant it.

i had a Bridesmaid or Best Man who a year before i was engaged but had looked at rings with my DH, said to me “oh i better get married before YOU!” (she had been with her boyfriend a couple of years longer than my relationship. so i just let it go).

well, this was also the same BM/friend that ended up asking me months after i was engaged if she can get married the same week as me during the week of my Destination Wedding n the Dominican Republic!   i said yes because i didn’t think it through in the moment when i was asked in front of our group of friends, but boy did i regret it later!

Post # 33
1684 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013


I don’t know, I don’t think there’s anything to be offended over or that you should take it personally. (I wouldn’t.) She didn’t say your wedding makes me sad. Just weddings. And that’s a perfectly valid feeling for someone who struggles with being single and not having met the right person. It doesn’t mean she’s not happy for you, she’s just sad for herself.

Post # 34
83 posts
Worker bee

who cares what she thinks? if she doesn’t rsvp, she can’t come. period. 

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