- 10 years ago
i totally get jealous friends too. who say and do inappropriate things because they are not happy with themselves so they can’t be happy for you. Just remember its about them not you. Yes, she probably said it more jokingly than you took it. but she also probably meant it.
i had a Bridesmaid or Best Man who a year before i was engaged but had looked at rings with my DH, said to me “oh i better get married before YOU!” (she had been with her boyfriend a couple of years longer than my relationship. so i just let it go).
well, this was also the same BM/friend that ended up asking me months after i was engaged if she can get married the same week as me during the week of my Destination Wedding n the Dominican Republic! i said yes because i didn’t think it through in the moment when i was asked in front of our group of friends, but boy did i regret it later!