(Closed) You're all adults, freaking act like it!

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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101 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@LadyElva:  I didn’t even give them the option to be honest because I know that something like that will happen as well. I just went “Here’s the dress that I really like, what do you guys think? Any objections?”

Post # 4
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76 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

maybe that’s SIL’s way of saying to make her MOH? with or without a Maid/Matron of Honor i do agree that sometimes adults need a referee. not saying it should be the Maid/Matron of Honor or that you should even appoint anyone to be in that situation. just saying adults don’t always act like adults. 🙂

Post # 5
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7977 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

@thisisbrucebanner:  +1

Yeah, I tried the same approach as you, OP. And I had the same response. So now I’m just picking a dress and they can all just get over it. Not worth the hassle.

Post # 7
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506 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I hadn’t even given the bridesmaid/men the option of choosing their own dresses before they started submitting sites/pics/stores LOL. My Maid/Matron of Honor is the worst about it. My mom made a similar suggestion and I was like, I give no amount of craps as long as I don’t actually have to read the entire conversation about wedding stuff because Im doing what I want regardless. I like that they are having a good time with it. 

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