(Closed) Yours, Mine, what about Ours?!?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
635 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Your wedding, your rules. As long as you haven’t paid for anything, or his family hasn’t paid for anything on “their turf”, just change it and have him explain to his family it’s what you BOTH wanted. He has to be sure they know it’s a joint decision and not you pulling it away from them.

Post # 4
7651 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

If you can’t agree then do it in a neutral setting unless mom and dad are paying (then they get some say). Don’t let your families decide what to do because once you do that you will be like the hundreds of brides on here that ask why they aren’t in control. You need to look at places you BOTH like and what place can accomodate your guests.

I go for a setting somewhere in the middle of things.

Post # 5
483 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

We got married where we live.  We didn’t even think about having it where either one of us are from.

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