(Closed) You’ve got to be kidding me – FB vent

posted 7 years ago in Technology
Post # 3
7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I would comment exactly what you said. “Oh By The Way, I did send you an invite, but wrote your address wrong by mistake, so it got sent back to me. Glad you posted this, so that I don’t have to resend it!”

Then, defriend her

Post # 4
277 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Difficult situation!!! Not sure what I’d do if I were you. She’s obviously upset that you didn’t invite her, but I suppose she’s also told her friends you haven’t invited her.


Now, if you DO invite her, will she believe that you got her address wrong, or will she just think you decided to invite her after her facebook appeal???

I honestly don’t know!!!

Post # 5
288 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Sometimes the best response is no response.  I would not respond to her directly, because she did not speak to me directly.  If she wants to know, she would have to approach me.  That is her loss, because obviously she was looking forward to it. 

Post # 6
5785 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

Why would you invite this person in the first place? I wouldn’t resend the invite.

Post # 8
1036 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

There is no need to respond or resend the invite, but if you feel you need to, or want to say something, I would private message her, no need to stoop to her level of publicly trying to call someone out or humilate them.  Let her know the honest truth, you sent an invite it was misaddressed and was returned.  And even tell her that based on her post, you no longer feel comfortable with her attendance at your wedding, that you want to be surrounded by people that love you and are truly supportive of you in your life.

If she isn’t a friend, why do you care if she is there or what she thinks?  If you need to say something, say it privately… Then leave it.  I would then not only defriend her but block her so that she cannot message you back with snarky remarks or post comments on your posts… You don’t need the stress.  In the big scheme of things, this is just not worth it.

Post # 9
9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Ignore her and just cut off communication, she sounds petty and childish.

Post # 10
3943 posts
Honey bee

Why invite her in the first place? It doesnt sound like you guys are even friends?

Post # 11
3866 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

It could also be a method for her to “blackmail” or bully you into getting an invite since she obviously thinks you didn’t send her one.  

Personally, I wouldn’t bother sending it to her after pulling a stunt like that.  


Post # 12
1843 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Bostongrl25: <

  This.  Why did you invite her if you’re not friends and you’ve only seen her once in the last 3 years?

I wouldn’t even respond and I wouldn’t re-send the invite.

Post # 13
6825 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I am sorry but are you still in high school? And I don’t mean that snarky or anything but your post completely reminded me of high school childish games. Just either ignore her or defriend her. 

Post # 15
55 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

@nickie362: I would do the same thing!

how RIDICULOUS is she??!! ignore her

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