(Closed) You've got to be shitting me.

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 62
367 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Call but say ONLY 3 seats. It must mean they f** thought the can bring 2 of their kids. RUDE

Post # 63
680 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@s2bmrscook:  Least it was just the RSVP date not the wedding date! I didn’t even notice, totally not an issue!

Post # 65
685 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@s2bmrscook:  hahah I dont mean to laugh but the title of this post & the reply .. 3 & 5? People are so ignorant 

Post # 66
9251 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

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@s2bmrscook:  Yes but you are overreacting. And getting bent out of shape over something that you yourself are guilty of (making a mistake). Shouldn’t the fact that you just made a collosal mistake make you a little bit more understanding?

Your Fiance gave them the extra guest so you have nothing to be annoyed with them about. If you have a problem with the extra guest then your annoyance should be directed at your Fiance.

There is nothing here to get upset about  and vent about. Maybe you need to take a break and have a glass of wine.

Post # 67
10 posts
  • Wedding: October 2014

Last year I got a save the date for this girl I met through mutual friends birthday trip. We got along great on the trip but I mean, we arent BFF or anything. Well, she never sent me the invitation to the wedding. Turns out she over invited and had to make cuts but didnt alert those who already received the STD. Not that I would have went to the wedding in the first place, but still, totally tacky. I casually forgot to mai her a wedding gift

Post # 68
232 posts
Helper bee

Geez people. To those people pointing out the 30 days in September, really? Some people get some bizarre ego boost out of being pendatic.

An error in the invite reply creates confusion, being they put no name, and added extra guests.

The mistake of a date (off by a day) affects the overall planning of the wedding…how really?


Please forgive iPad typos.

Post # 70
164 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Holy Moly. I am annoyed for you. 

Post # 71
13997 posts
Honey Beekeeper

Fiance never told you that he gave his  aunt two additional people?  It sounds that if he had, there would have been little doubt as to who left the name off the card.  Plus, you would have been spared the aggravation of thinking that someone added two extra guests without permission.  I can understand that you were frustrated that someone left their name off the care, but as you know, mistakes happen.



Post # 73
749 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

that’s incredibly rude.

Post # 74
2977 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Just ignore those posters. That RSVP card IS annoying and rude. Glad u figured out who it was. 

Post # 75
1077 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Greenbrier Country Club

OMG! That’s soooo rude.
I’m not gonna lie though… I chuckled when i saw this. it’s kind of funny 🙂 

Post # 76
37 posts
  • Wedding: September 2013

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@MistySoda:  In our case, turns out they had a niece staying with them (she is nearly 20 but they didn’t want to leave her alone). I think 20 is plenty old to stay on your own for an afternoon/evening – but whatev. It all worked out okay, thankfully!

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